“Love is like oxygen. Love is a many splendid thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love… “ I suppose Christian (Ewan McGregor) in “Moulin Rouge!” has the right idea about love, but why?
Love is not just a feeling. Love is an action that requires effort to show someone that you love them. How is someone going to know you love them by the butterflies in your stomach? In order for someone to know that you love them, you’ve got to do more than just say those three words. Your words have got to line up with your actions. You’ve got to show them by encouraging them, helping them when you know they need help, spending time with them, giving them gifts, or giving them a pat on the back (or maybe a hug =)). The feelings of love come as a result of the action of love.
So how do you know if you’re “in love?” Take a look at how they treat you and how you treat him or her. Are you in love or are you infatuated?
Posted on
Fri, April 18, 2008
by Jillian B.