Hurray! You’ve chosen to save yourself for that one special person on that very special day. Wedding Day, 20??
even though you’re not going all the way, you’re still messing around, having intimate contact, kissing, cuddling…
One problem…all of that one-thing-leads-to-another intimate contact releases a hormone called oxytocin. This one-of-a-kind chemical creates a glue-like feeling between two people I like to call stickiness. Having ANY kind of sexual contact with another person sticks them together and creates a bond that will last you the rest of your life. Yep, that’s right…it’s yours to keep. Variations of bonding include: comparisons, flashbacks, STDs, children, low self esteem…
Oxytocin attaches you to someone else who you might not want to be attached to for the rest of your life. So when that very special day comes (Wedding Day, 20??), do you want other people’s stickiness to be stuck to you?
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Monday, September 8, 2008
by Jillian B.