Why is it that teenagers are constantly getting stuck in unhealthy relationships? Is there a rule that says if you’re a teen you’ve got to have at least one unhealthy relationship?
First of all what’s the difference? Is a healthy relationship characterized by rudeness, selfishness and manipulation? NO! Is a healthy relationship revolved around sex where as long as there is sex being had then that is good enough? NO!
So often girls give sex to get love and guys often give love to get sex. This is a form of manipulation that characterizes an unhealthy relationship.
If you’re only with that person because you fear being alone, or because of your history together, or because you don’t think anyone else will have you, I’m sorry to tell you that you’re probably in it for the wrong reasons. Don’t waste your priceless freedom being stuck in the mud with someone who isn’t making you a better person.
A healthy relationship is characterized by loving yourself first so you can love the other person more than yourself…the golden rule: treat others how you want to be treated.
A healthy relationship is characterized by sweet companionship, similar goals and dreams, respect and love. What is love? That is a whole other blog. Tune in next week…
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Friday, April 11, 2008
by Jillian B.